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SEXY GLAM
MAGAZINE - JULY / AUGUST 2014
Putting Your Partner in
Charge
Perhaps one of the simplest of
men’s sexual fantasies is just
having your sexual partner direct-
ing the sex script for the night.
“Whether it is a full-on dominatrix
or simply a woman who knows
what she wants and how to
get it, many men find the thrill
of a confident and sexual
woman to be very appealing,”
explained Laura Berman,
LCSW, PhD, a sex expert
and author of “Loving Sex:
The Book of Joy and Pas-
sion.”
“It can be tiresome to al-
ways feel like the pursuer.
Feeling pursued can be a
very sexy change, and it
can also be a huge ego
boost,” she said.
Getting Steamy With Your Ex
Do you, like many other women, have an ex who rocked your world sexually
or who loved you and left you (giving him a permanent place in the land of
unresolved relationships)? Imagine running into him unexpectedly. Maybe
you’re at the supermarket and find yourself checking him out as you catch
up on old times. Once in the parking lot, you both get in his car and drive
back to his place, where you discover that his hands still feel familiar and
that he remembers every delicious detail about how to make you squirm
with pleasure. From there, you begin to have a secretive and passionate
affair — because the sex is still that good. There’s nothing dirty or wrong
about sexually indulging within the boundaries of your own mind, even if you
do have a longtime partner. That’s what makes it a fantasy, after all. That’s
what makes it exciting!
The Dominatrix
Many women dream of taking charge in
their favorite sexual fantasies. You could
be a dominatrix leading a man back to
your hideout and planning to make him
your sex slave. You’ll tie his hands
behind his back or cuff his wrists and
ankles to the bedposts, wrap a silk
scarf over his eyes, maybe put a cloth
gag in his mouth, and “torture” him
with suggestive movements, sensual
talk, and the tantalizing click of your
heels circling his body and touch-
ing him where and when you want.
Slowly you whip him into a sexual
frenzy until he surrenders, ready to
be your love slave. Only then will
you let him move, and only so he
can touch you exactly when, where,
and how you demand (if he’s being
good, that is).