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rue story: I once dated a guy who compulsively grunted
“Oh yeah, you like that? You like that?” almost the entire time he
was on top of me. And no, I did not like that.
What I would have liked is if he had been a little less generic and
repetitive. And since studies show that couples who get verbally
nasty in bed report increased levels of intimacy and relationship
Initiate A Naughty Q&A
Questions like “Does that feel good?” or “Do you like when I touch
you like this?” can help get the ball rolling. And if you find yourself on
the receiving end of these questions, know that a grunted “Uh-huh” or
a bland, “Why yes dear, that does, in fact, feel good” are not accept-
able answers. Have a little gumption! Try “That feels so fucking good”
or “No one has ever touched me like that before” so she know she’s
not in bed with a corpse — and that you think she’s better in bed than
one.
Give X-Rated Instructions
Another way to get her into the dirty-talking spirit is to tell her
exactly what you want her to do: “Strip and climb on top of me,”
or “Touch yourself for me.” This also creates a bit of a submissive/
dominant dynamic, which can be really hot if you are both into it.
Since you will not really know until you try, I recommend easing
into this kind of thing at first. Start with a less demanding command,
like whispering “Keep moving your tongue like that.” Depending on
her reaction, you can decide whether or not it is a good idea to up the
ante.
use your dirty talk to praise her
ts are amazing,” or “Your ass is
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satisfaction, I think it is safe to say that knowing how to talk dirty
is an essential component to good sex. Thing is, as Mr. You Like
That proved, it is not always easy for some guys to do — or to
do well. So here are some basic, lady-friendly rules to get you
started.