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have specific things which turn me on (I
mean mentally) but it does not really work
unless I have that connection with some-
one. At this point in my life that generally
comes in the form of a relationship or
dating/sleeping with only one person at a
time and vice versa.
There are exceptions though. For instance,
there was one person who was 10 yrs
younger than I was that I only went on
a couple of dates with in between my
ex and my current boyfriend. However,
we had casual sex and it was amazing!
I was puzzled by it (laughs) but I finally
figured out that it was because I felt safe
with him. That and we just had amazing
chemistry. Even though I knew, it was not
going to go anywhere because he lived far
away and due to the age difference, we
had a real connection. We talked a lot, as
both friends and about sex, (I love talking
about sex, esp. when it is with someone I
am into. It is like foreplay to me).
Also with women in general I find it
easier to have orgasms but again, it is
always better with someone I am crazy
about and vice versa.
I would say the perfect ideal formula
for a “passionate night” would be if my
boyfriend takes me out somewhere special
and I get all dolled up for him and he not
only tells me I look beautiful, but I feel it,
the same way I described before. I need to
feel loved and cherished, but also, as he
cannot wait to get me home. I like to flirt
over dinner that is what gets me turned on
initially. It is harder the longer you have
been together to “keep the spark alive.”
As I said, I need to still feel special and
not taken for granted and I try to treat
my partner the same. In addition, as I
mentioned before, we are really into role-
playing. So maybe over dinner we would
talk about what scenarios we want to try
when we get home. Once over dinner I
took off my panties in the bathroom, came
back to the table, and handed them to him.
I remember leaving the restaurant and him
grabbing me and kissing me in the middle
of the street and I could feel how turned
he was. I guess that would be the ideal
setup to starting a night full of passion in
the sheets!
Do you believe that size does matter?
Does size matter? Um you are asking the
wrong person (laughs). Penis in general
does not matter to me; I have no prefer-
ence when it comes to men vs. women
in bed. Actually, that is not completely
true. Aesthetically I probably am more
attracted to women. I find their bodies
much sexier and appealing to look at.
I was just having this conversation the
other day with a straight friend. I am
always shocked when straight girls go on
about how much they love penis (laughs
again). I literally used to think they were
all lying because I did not get what could
possibly be appealing about them. I mean
obviously I am able to enjoy sex with men
(but just to be clear, although I have not
written about it as much I enjoy sex with
women just as much, if not more, depend-
ing on the person). I guess that is the thing
with me, it is so much about the person.
I hope none of my ex’s (the men at least)
read this but to be completely honest,
my boyfriend’s penis is the first one I
can truly say I am into and not somewhat
grossed out by. I am sure it is because it is
part of him and I love him. Not that I did
not love the men I had relationships with
in the past but I guess, I was always a lit-
tle bit ambivalent about that part of them.
Anyway to answer the question, no it does
not matter to me, yet at the same time I do
think the size of my boyfriend’s is perfect.
Someone once told me that certain men
and women just “fit” better together and I
think that is also part of it; he just seems
to “fit” inside me perfectly! I even enjoy
touching it which is a first for me (laughs
again). I think because he reacts to it so
much. He gets all squirmy because he got
turned on. I love that. I love turning him
on!
Sex is…
Sex is...best when it is combined with
love. That is my shortest answer!
What are your hobbies?
My hobbies include singing, songwriting,
writing in general-poems,
Some short stories and mostly memoir
writing. (As I mentioned, I am working on
one now). I also do some modeling, act-
ing, dancing, Pilates, spending time with
my friends, drinking too much coffee,
fashion, shopping( I’m addicted to online
shopping, especially to designer items at
discounted prices, in particular purses &
shoes). Going out to restaurants, movies,
books (I am always reading at least one
book at a time), the occasional bar/lounge/
club, getting obsessed with TV shows
(current obsession: Girls), trying to catch
up on my email (currently have 2,589
messages!), family, traveling when I can.
We know you have a boyfriend now,
but imagine for a moment that you do
not have one, and you want a man or
woman to conquer you. What physi-
cal, intellectual and emotional quali-
ties should meet a man or woman who
wants to get the love of Gigi?
Well first, I have completely opposite
types physically when it comes to men
and women. With men, I always used to
go for pretty boys and I am usually more
attracted to shorter guys. One of my old-
est friends always teases me about the
fact that all of my serious boyfriends have
almost the exact same build. They are
all 5-7’ to 5-10’ and usually on the thin
side (although my ex husband had a more
athletic build). I have dated a few tall
man that I have liked but (this will sound
very weird), I just do not ever see myself
settling down with a tall men (laughs). In
the past, I always went for very clean cut
all American looking guys. Up until my
ex husband, that was my type. He was
unique in that he was movie star hand-
some, but very unaffected about his looks.
That was one of the things I really loved
about him. He was also not in the enter-
tainment business. My first love was also
ridiculously good looking. It was the first
thing people would comment on about
him & he was often compared to Brad Pitt
(but shorter!). He was definitely aware of
his looks and even used them, kind of in
the way some pretty girls use their looks
to “get things”, you know? He admit-
ted that before me he would use girls
for money, gifts, etc, that was one of the
things I did not love about him (laughs),
but I understood it. When I left my hus-
band, I was really only dating women for
a long time. The first men I was with after
him was the one I mentioned who had
the fetishes. He was a cross between my
usual type, and what I think of now, as my
new type. He was very tall (not my type),
but a pretty boy (my former type), not
as clean cut, more edgy, and he was the
first Jewish guy I was ever with. Oh and
he was an actor. For a while I was under
the deluded impression that dating other
actors/models and/or singers made sense