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because we would have stuff in common.
That resulted in a series of truly terrible
flings, for lack of a better word, with a
bunch of pretty boy jerks. Anyway, after
awhile I literally refused to date any more
actors in particular but I did start dating
mostly Jewish. I realized, I rather had a
thing for quirky Jewish celebrities such
as Zach Braff, Andy Sandberg, and my
favorite, Jesse Eisenberg. Currently I am
into Adam Driver from “Girls” as well.
(Just for your information, my current
boyfriend is a short, quirky Jewish man.
He thinks he is not attractive or at best av-
erage but I truly think he is gorgeous.) It
does not hurt that our chemistry is through
the roof!
When it comes to women, as I said, I am
the exact opposite. I like exotic. Although
my first “real” girlfriend had blonde hair
and green eyes, over time I realized I defi-
nitely have a “type” also when it comes
to girls. My friends tease me that I have
an “Asian fetish” which I think sounds
terrible but I do have to admit I find Asian
women in particular to be gorgeous and
yes, I have dated my fair share of them.
However, I have also dated just about
every nationality when it comes to women
and I find mixed girls to be beautiful as
well. Another ex- girlfriend who also
happens to be one of the great loves of my
life is 100% Puerto Rican. I also used to
think I was into other really femme girls
(I am uber femme) but over time, I real-
ized my true type is what I call “femme
tomboy”(emphasis on the tomboy part).
My straight friends refer to the girls I’ve
dated in that category as “butch” but that’s
only because in their world there’s only
“butch” or “femme” and I guess the girls
I usually date lean more to the “masculine
side” (again, in a tomboy way). There is
another newer term some les/bi girls use
called “futch” which is a cross between
femme and butch but I am sticking by my
femme tomboy classification. Think Jo
from “The Facts of Life”(my first celeb-
rity crush!).
As far as what kind of personality I go
for, I am attracted to someone who is
kind, compassionate and sensitive (though
with girls I often go for tough on the
outside, marshmallows on the inside).
Non-judgmental, down to earth, honest,
sense of humor (ideally similar to mine,
offbeat, kind of dry and ironic), passion-
ate, intense, loyal, nurturing, and someone
who gets me and/or who appreciates me
for who I am, not just how I look (while at
the same time thinking I’m the most gor-
geous girl in the world (laughs). Hey, I am
a Leo; we do require constant adoration.
I am also happy to give it back in return.
Oh and yes, intelligence is of course
important as well but to me I can tell if
someone is intelligent or not by their
sense of humor. I think a person’s sense of
humor reflects their level of intelligence.
So if someone is quirky and can make me
laugh and we have chemistry physically,
that is pretty much all I need.
For you, what is the most erotic man’s
pose what is the most erotic pose for a
woman? Why?
I am not sure how to answer that. I am
not a visual person so an “erotic pose”
does not really do much for me. I find
words and talking dirty much more erotic.
I guess if a woman looks strong, that is
sexy to me. I do not necessarily mean
physically strong though that can be sexy
too. I mean more like in the sense of if she
looks like she has a little bit of an edge
to her or looks like a tough girl. A perfect
example would be Michelle Rodriguez,
how she looked in “Girl fight” or on
“Lost”. I like a girl who looks like she can
take control or dominate me a little. I do
not know what to say about a pose for a
man (laughs). I think that with men it is a
little more of a mentality thing that turns
me on. Meaning I get more turned on by
getting inside their heads. Very rarely hap-
pened to me, if ever do, I just see a person
and feel turned on with that person; even
if he is super good looking. Therefore,
a pose is not going to do it for me. With
men I like hearing how turned on they are
more than seeing it while with women
I guess I could get more turned on from
looking at them. However, with both,
personality is the most important.
What is the most erotic technique that a
man has used to seduce you?
Hmm...I have to think about this. As I
mentioned earlier I have sort of specific
things that turn me on. Essentially I am
turned on by knowing the other person
is really turned on and I am turned on by
being teased or teasing someone else. I
do not think my boyfriend would say he
“seduced me” but in a way, he did without
meaning to. As I mentioned earlier we
have very strong chemistry. Even on our
first date, it was extremely difficult for us
to keep our hands off each other. We were
at this restaurant/lounge, sitting next to
each other. I remember just feeling this
pull towards him. We kept getting closer
and closer and finally I asked him to give
me a neck rub partly because I love neck/
head rubs, almost more than sex (laughs).
In addition, because I just wanted him
to touch me, he said that was the mo-
ment he knew for sure, I was attracted
to him. I sensed he was being turned on
when he was giving me the neck rub and
then at some point he started kissing me.
Nevertheless, the whole night was like a
drawn out seduction, which I loved. After
the restaurant, we went to a hookah place
where we sat in the back on a coach, very
close to each other. I guess if anything he
“seduced” me there but it was more as if
we were seducing each other. We talked
a lot, getting to know one another. It was
not just physical. However, that just made
the physical stuff more intense. We talked
a long time and then at some point started
kissing and then, I think he was just try-
ing to be respectful...he was being very
careful to not actually grab or touch me
anywhere “inappropriate” at first. That to
me was actually more of a tease, which
is what turned me on so much. I could be
teased for hours and be in heaven. He was
kissing my neck and ears and then started
kissing my chest but only around my bra
for a long time, this to me so much better
than someone just pulling my bra off, and
going for the obvious. So he kept doing
that and at some point started grinding on
me, I think my leg at first and I could feel
he was really hard and throbbing which
was incredibly hot to me; that is the kind
of thing that really turns me on. It is like
the foreplay before the actual foreplay.
That is my favorite. The fact that we were
in public did not hurt because I am a bit
of an exhibitionist. I also remember get-
ting up to go to the bathroom and then, I
started dancing for him a little (again that
was me being seductive) and I remem-
ber pulling him up and grinding on him,
feeling how hard he was again. That was
definitely the most turned on I have ever
been on a first date. We did not have sex
that night but I was definitely seduced in
many ways. Men, take notes. Good things
come to those who wait.
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