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Role Play
For some, a strong men’s sexual
fantasy involves dressing up
and playing out new roles and
story lines. Heterosexual men
might favor the character parts of
strong men encountering attrac-
tive women.
Schwartz said homosexual or
bisexual men might have more
freedom to play in this arena.
“Gay men have a much broader
palate,” she said. “There is a
gay culture that supports sexual
fantasy.” Dressing in drag or in
costume and being willing to play
different roles can lead to some
exciting outcomes.
Watch or Be Watched
Perhaps you are a bit of an exhibitionist and like the idea of being watched
while you’re having sex; maybe you’re being “forced” to have sex in front of
other people. Or, you might be the one spying on someone else having sex.
Anyone, a stranger or someone you know, can be the subject of this fantasy.
Maybe you’re peeking through the bedroom blinds, watching your sexy next-
door neighbor with his girlfriend, or you’re getting hot and heavy against the
floor-to-ceiling windows of your luxury hotel room. Or you’re masturbating
in the car, while you’re stuck in midday traffic. You may even be having sex
on the conference-room table, and your boss could walk in any second. You
would be ashamed — maybe ruined — if anyone ever found out. But that’s
exactly what makes it so exciting!
Submit to the Urge
Women often fantasize about being ravaged and taken control of. It
doesn’t mean you necessarily want it in your real sex life, but it’s fun to
entertain the idea. Fantasize about someone powerful having his way
with you sexually. Maybe your fantasy man is the James Bond type,
who steps into the hotel room, leaves his gun on the table, and sweeps
you off your feet and into the bed. Or perhaps a burly construction man
is more your taste, home from a long, hot, sweaty day of work, oozing
pheromones. You might even be into fantasizing about the leather-
clad dominator, bent on punishing you for being so very, very naughty.
Maybe there are blindfolds or restraints. Maybe you’re even taken by
surprise!
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MAGAZINE - JULY / AUGUST 2014