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SEXY GLAM
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Fetishes
Men’s sexual fantasies
often include fetishes. A fet-
ish can involve any number
of body parts, such as feet,
or objects, such as your
lover’s underwear. Often,
men’s sexual fantasies are
wrapped up in things that
typically aren’t included in
their sex play. Fantasy is
the perfect opportunity to
safely experiment with how
these fetishes could be in-
cluded in your lovemaking.
Submission
Many men enjoy sexual fantasies in which the man is more
of a passive player. “A lot of men enjoy being submissive,”
Kerner said. “It runs contrary to the way they experience
their lives outside of the bedroom. They enjoy being tied up,
teased, tantalized, and spanked.”
Schwartz noted that an extended variation of this theme is
the fantasy in which a man’s anus is penetrated by his lover,
male or female.
Watching Sex
“Many men are titillated by watching women pleasure
other women,” observed Berman. Voyeurism in general is
near the top of the list of men’s sexual fantasies. It can be
combined with other fantasies, including watching your sig-
nificant other with another sexual partner or masturbating
to orgasm, or even discovering other people in flagrante
delicto.
Kerner pointed out that many modern sexual fantasies
come from watching porn, but the drawback to that is
often isolation. “Men are experiencing their fantasies by
watching them instead of sharing them or role playing,” he
explained.