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watch TV… and I tend to gravitate
towards weirdoes. (Laughing.) Okay, a
Collin Farell-ish face, but with rockstar
appeal, and long, pony-tailed hair, like Jon
Davis from the band KoRn. Denzel Wash-
ington’s grin, and spunk, Jack Nicholson’s
craziness, Daniel Day Lewis’ talent. Any
good toned body, a Spanish accent.
Tell me, from highest to lowest in order
of importance, five men a woman
should never date.
1. A married man! Why: because I,
mistakenly, went there before, and it is a
very difficult and draining journey. Either
he will never leave her, or he will, and
you will feel immense guilt for having
wrecked somebody else’s “home,” per
say.
2. A man with Mommy issues. Why: it’s
hard to determine if they have these issues
right away, but if they do they are prob-
ably also very confused about their sexu-
ality, deep inside, and it will be a struggle
for you the whole way through.
3. Your sister’s boyfriend/crush/lover/fi-
ancé/husband, etc. Why: Do I really need
to say why? This is just so wrong, on so
many levels.
4. Your best friends crush. Why: It’s
hurtful. It’s hard, because often when
you are young and free, you find yourself
slated in competition with your friends
by men, when you are out together in
public places, and/or parties. It’s not done
purposely, it’s just how things happen
naturally. It’s a contest no matter whether
YOU are competitive, or not. So, when an
attractive man comes along, it’s almost as
if one has to sink her nails in first, to make
her claim, and even if he doesn’t her, if
your friend claimed him first, if you make
a move; it’s a betrayal. I’ve gone through
this a lot. I liked him, he liked me; she
said she liked him “first,” he had no inter-
est. It’s just a hard situation to go through.
5. Control freaks. Why: They can become
abusive, angry, and violent. The posses-
sive, controlling types can be a turn on
at first, because they are giving you so
much attention, on one hand. They can’t
easily be mistaken for love. But, eventu-
ally a time will come, when you will stop
feeling intoxicated, and start hating them.
They will suffocate and smother you, and
you will explode. It’s inevitable.
Please use short answers.
Do you date your age, younger or
older?
My mate is older.
Up or down?
Down.
White wine or red wine?
Red.
With the light on or off?
On!!!
Better long but not as wide, or rather
wide but not so long?
Tough choice but
first one.
Sexiest part of your body?
Torso.
What is the sexiest part of a man’s
body?
Shoulders.
The best place to have sex?
Public place
where you have to be super discreet and
quiet.
Sushi with chopsticks, barbeque with
knife and fork, or pizza with your
hand?
Sushi and chopsticks.
The most important person in your
life?
My lover.
A writer?
Anais Nin!
A book?
“The Diaries of Anais Nin,
Volume One”
From 1 to 10 how are you in the pri-
vacy?
10, hands down.
The happiest moment.
The day I realized
I was completely and fully in love with
my mate.
The longest time almost without inter-
ruption.
All night long!
As a writer, what would you say to
those who are interested to venture into
this art? What should they do, what
they should not do ever? What is im-
portant and what is superfluous in the
world of literature?
I think literature is like music, you can
either approach it as an artist and stay true
to who you are, and the vision you have,
and sacrifice (possibly) money and fame,
or you can adapt to pop culture, submit
to the mainstream ideals. Some people
are able to find balance that works, so
that they don’t feel they are completely
surrendering, or “selling out.” I suppose
that would be the most ideal situation. For
me, it’s never been about money, it’s just
about being great, I want to be great.
As for the writing itself, be creative, and
of course, write, write write!!! There may
never be another Shakespeare, but that
doesn’t mean you don’t have voice. Don’t
get discouraged. There is something true
artists refer to as “creative despair,” the
thing that has caused so much suicide in
the artistic world. It’s a feeling that all the
great things have been said, done, created,
written. Genius has already left its mark
and we are only going downhill, so why
bother? To anyone feeling these emotions,
the only thing I can say is fuel that despair
into art itself, and don’t give up. Allow
writing and art to nourish you, rather than
destroy you.
I’m still working on a career as a writer!
It takes years of practice and experience
to hone those skills. To have patience
to sit down and write an entire book.
Journaling is huge. The Diaries of Anais
Nin changed my life. She was an amaz-
ing journalist with dynamic energy and
grace, full of intellect and emotion. Not to
mention the lover of Henry Miller; who
changed the face of American literature,
himself. Once I viewed her line of work,
my writing altered, my vision changed
for the better. I started journaling, and
within 6 mos., I was ready for my first
novel! After 20 years of writing poetry! It
all came pouring through, at that point. I
had twenty years of emotions piling onto
a word document that has created my first
book; a memoir written as literary fiction.
As a glamor model. What advice would
you give to those who are starting, or
intend to enter the world of modeling?
There are so many fields of modeling!
Don’t get discouraged if you don’t fit the
criteria for fashion modeling. Fashion
models have to be very tall, and starkly
thin, this is not a stereotype this is reality.
But, there are so many fields of modeling
for other body types, genders, and ages. I
am actually putting together The Inde-
pendent Models Club of NYC, to help
prospective models who work in my area,
who are freelance, with a backbone of
sorts. Advice, and guidance, and to help
them correspond with other professionals,
and job prospects, in this industry.
I mentioned above—I started as an art
model, which is a great way to enter the
industry. I did my first job TFP (Time-For-
Print) with some photography students
at the art school I was attending. Then,
I built a mini-port online, and did more
shoots. Eventually, I modeled for some
schools, and private artists, and kept
building my ports, and now my career is
starting to take off! IT’s easy to transition
from art model to glamour model, because
both fields require deep security with the
human body. Originally, I just wanted to
be around my people—artists—when I
started art modeling, to supplement my
income. But, I love glamour modeling,
it is a way to be utterly feminine with no
hesitation. I am a bit of a tom boy at heart,
so this is one time where I get to just be
all female, and I love that.