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lthough I’m usually seen as
the Masturbation Maven or the
Queen of Electric Orgasms us-
ing sex toys, I’ve had a wealth
of other sexual experiences. During
the sixties and part of the seventies, I
was involved with sex parties which
laid the base for much of my sexu-
al knowledge. By the end of the
seventies, I phased out group
sex and was perfectly
happy sharing my
orgasms in the
masturbation
ritual that
was part
of every
workshop
I led. The
“women only”
dynamic was also
more peaceful for me
because it eliminated the
customary battle between
the sexes which was always
about power and control. In my opin-
ion, when sex is based on possession
and ownership, desire walks out the
bedroom door.
In the early eighties, I joined a sup-
port group of lesbian and bisexual
women who were exploring sexual
role playing by consciously looking
at the exchange of power between
two or more people sharing sex. These
women were talking about dominance
and submission, top and bottom,
master and slave all by consensual
agreement. Once I got over the mythi-
cal feminist notion of love and sex be-
tween equals, I was given the chance
Sexy
Dress-Up Fantasies
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