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D
ating in midlife can have some unique chal-
lenges for women. Plainly said: it can suck. As a Dating
and Relationship Coach for women over 40, and a gal who
became a first-time bride at age 47, I can vouch for
the seemingly suckiness of it.
But here’s what I now know: after 40 can
be the very BEST time to be looking for
companionship and love. My personal
experience, as well as that of the many
women I coach, has convinced me that
the direction this takes… depends solely
on YOU. Here’s my checklist for success:
DO:
1. Know and love thyself. Take a thorough
and honest look at yourself – inside and
out. Articulate how fabulous you are and
what makes you a good partner.
Reacquaint yourself with
the grownup you; I bet
you’re going to like
her!
2. Let
your
grownup girl do the picking. Don’t look for
the same guy you wanted when you
were 25. He won’t make
you happy