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SEXY GLAM
MAGAZINE - FEBRUARY 2018
woman exactly how he likes to
be stroked by demonstrating
it for her. If you’ve never mas-
turbated in the presence of a
lover, this can feel awkward
and embarrassing. But it serves
three important functions. It
clearly shows her which strokes
turn you on the most. It helps
her provide the most stimulat-
ing caresses. And it increases
her confidence in her own erotic
prowess and attractiveness.
Masturbating for a lover also
deepens the couple’s intimacy.
Intimacy is all about self-revela-
tion, disclosing who you really
are. What’s more self-revealing
than displaying how you enjoy
sex with yourself?
Fellatio is also a major compo-
nent of great sex without inter-
course. And guess what—men
don’t need erections to enjoy it.
They can derive great pleasure
from oral sex even if only par-
tially erect or even flaccid.
In addition, a firm erection is
not necessary for ejaculation
and orgasm. It’s quite possible
for men to enjoy earth-mov-
ing orgasms with only partial
erections or none at all—if they
receive sufficient stimulation by
hand, mouth, or sex toy.
Couples experimenting with sex
without intercourse might also
try penis sleeves, artificial vagi-
nas or mouths that, when lubri-
cated, feel remarkably close to
the real thing. A man who can’t
manage vaginal intercourse
may be able to slide (or stuff)
his penis into a sleeve. Penis
sleeves, available from sex toy
marketers, can be easily incor-
porated into partner lovemaking.
Great Sex Without Inter-
course—For Women
This bears repeating: Only 25
percent of women are reliably
orgasmic during intercourse.
In other words, three-quarters
of women
need
direct clitoral
stimulation to experience
orgasm.