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but many of us don’t and it works just
fine. In my opinion, it’s completely
unreasonable to put your body through
the douching process each time you
want to do butt stuff, so unless you
really love douching, there’s no need.
You can reduce your chances of
encountering poop by choosing to do
butt stuff when you know you’re not
still digesting food. For the most part,
though, you won’t see any poop unless
you’re about to have a bowel move-
ment. Feces are stored in the colon,
which is where the rectum highway
leads. Poop only passes through the
rectum as it exits the body; otherwise,
it just chills up in the colon. If you find
that longer phalluses that go inside
you anally have a bit of poop at the tip
when they’re pulled out, that’s proba-
bly because they’ve entered the colon.
It’s no biggie, but it is something to be
aware of, and you definitely want to be
gentler the deeper you go.
4. Get the proper accessories.
By now you know that lube is non-ne-
gotiable for butt play. A good toy,
meanwhile, is an ideal tool for getting
accustomed to the sensations of being
anally penetrated. Even if you’re look-
ing to achieve penetration with a penis
eventually, it’s wise to start out with
fingers or an anal-safe toy (and, again,
sooooo much lube.) A toy is safe to put
in your butt if it has a flared base or
other stopping point. That’s because,
the rectum can suck things inside the
body like a vacuum (unlike the vaginal
canal, which ends with the cervix).
The last thing you want is to end up in
the ER with a vibrator lost up your ass.
Starting with small toys will help you
become familiar with how your rectum
feels as things go in and out of it so
that you’re prepared for a larger thing,
like a strap-on dildo or penis.
5. Identify tension and let it go.
While we can clench and unclench our
outer sphincter consciously (try it right
now), the inner sphincter cannot relax
unless you are super-duper chilled-out
inside. If you’re the receiving partner,
calm your mind, steady your breath-
ing, and try to identify and let go of
any tension you’re holding inside of
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